4 Keys to Ending the Entrepreneurial Aloneness Blues

How do you fight off the blues? The blues I'mof failure' in nearly every aspect of the business!
speaking of are the entrepreneurial 'aloneness'So we're working to shift Mark from being the
blues.primary 'doer' through becoming a Manager of his
I've found myself guiding several of my clientsbusiness with others doing the lion's share of the
this past week as they sort this out. Theiractual work, under his supervision. Over time,
aloneness stems from immersing themselvesMark will be come the cheering section for his
whole heartedly in their passion as they createteam as they take the field to deliver customer
their business. They have a clear Vision for whatdelight.
they want to achieve, and they're stellar atAnd let's not forget the perspective of a fellow
keeping their attention on the goal.problem solver. In my own work I encounter
My client new Mark commented that he realizedissues that need problem solving. When I rely only
he'd built a business model that had him playingon my own ideas and experience I may miss
nearly every single position on a football team. Iteven better solutions that others might come up
didn't matter how fabulous the touchdowns were,with. The same holds for my clients. I've created
when he turned around in the end zone, no onethree different mastermind groups for myself
was watching. And he keeps work and home lifewhere I have colleagues that I run ideas by to
separate so even evenings and weekends whenget input. My clients learn to create the sounding
he goes home there's no one to report to for aboard that enriches their decision-making. Nothing
congratulations pat as he leaves the field.beats having others with experienced eyes
And that's not all!standing close to the sideline with real time
Not only did he not have team mates to help getfeedback and practical suggestions that support
it done, there was no cheering from the stands,my efforts. Just as I've created that support
and no coach on the side lines to run ideas by.system for myself, I'm working with Mark to
Mark is not the only one living that "I'll get it doneidentify peers he can build relationships with to
alone" life.exchange ideas with.
Entrepreneurs and small business owners andThere is even the perspective of a customer. If
professionals alike become so focused and drivenMark is the one and only person a client can turn
that they are missing all the critical elements, theto with a question, a need, a problem that needs
balancing aspects of team and relationship. As yousolving, then the customer is at risk. Not only is
read this you probably have images flashing inMark's business at risk if a customer leaves, but
your mind about what they're missing, and aboutthe customer is at risk if Mark decides to take a
what you're missing.vacation! Expanding the team means Mark will be
And I mean 'missing' in more than one way. Inable to assure his customers of the continuity of
fact here are just four:support they depend on for their own business
I mean it first from the perspective of a coach. Itsafety.
pains me watching my folks do it the hard wayEach of those perspectives leads to simple and
when they don't need to. When they've finally hadstraightforward solutions. Mark's success will be
enough of proving they can do it all on their own,strengthened when he filling in the missing pieces
we design their work so they can start handingof people to delegate to, peer advisers to boost
portions of it off to others to ease andhis own productivity and an organization structure
accelerate getting it done.that secures his and his clients businesses. All of
Then there's the perspective of a business owner.these steps lead to High Payoff results.
If Mark keeps doing it all himself, then he is hisSo if you find yourself doing it all on your own,
business. That's it. There's no way around the factput a team in place and you'll break free of the
that Mark is creating his key role as 'single pointdoing-it-all-yourself blues!